Rhythm of Life

1. Who are Rhythm of Life
2. What religion or church do you belong to?
3. What is your relationship to other ministers or religious teachers?
4. What does ordained actually mean?
5. What training did you have?
6. What exactly do you specificaly provide?
7. What are the benefits of an interfaith ceremony?
8. What else can you tell me about the one on one support you offer?
9. What geographical area do you cover?
10. How much do you charge?
11. What if I just want some consultancy because I want to write a ceremony myself?
12. I’m interested in what you have to offer …How do I begin? What do I do next?

1) Who are Rhythm of Life?

People are diverse. We come in different shapes, colours and sizes. We are continually changing. We have different points of view. However within this diversity there is a simple commonality that binds us all together; the ebb and flow of life with its ups and downs. We call this the rhythm of life; and at the heart of our Ministry lies the desire to help people as they journey through life.

We are ordained Interfaith Ministers committed to help enrich people’s lives. To help people achieve their goals, turn their dreams into reality, live their lives more consciously from a place of comfort and truth and express more of who they really are. We are here to serve all people with love, ensuring wherever possible that their needs are met.

Our catalogue of ceremonies, support and other services has been created with this totally in mind. We can lead and create ceremonies and work in a wide range of roles to support individuals, families and communities throughout the UK.

With a breadth and ongoing experience of ministry, business, coaching, counselling, education, drama, training, presentation, group facilitation, marketing and advertising we can bring a knowledge and understanding of the everyday world to all aspects of our work. We are thoroughly down to earth, professional, approachable and we love what we do.

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2) What religion or church do you belong to?

We are trained and ordained in the Interfaith Seminary We are non denominational ministers here to serve people of all faiths or none.  We believe there are many paths to one ultimate truth.

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3) What is your relationship to other ministers or religious teachers?

We are not part of a new religion. Nor are we a replacement for traditional religions, ministers or teachers. Rather, we offer choice and an alternative approach. Complementing and building on existing beliefs.  We actively honour and acknowledge differences in theology, philosophy and practices.

However some people feel uncomfortable with conventional religion yet seek some form of spiritual connection and expression.

Since we are not part of a specific religion there is no church. We are self employed and work in a variety of ways. We blend our work at Rhythm of Life alongside our professions and everyday commitments. We can carry out our work wherever and for whomever.

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4) What does ordained actually mean?

It means we have formally taken vows initially witnessed by our faculty and community of other ministers; and then subsequently witnessed by our friends and family in a public ceremony.

Each and everyone of us has our own personal vow which is a promise to live our lives for the greater good of all people.

Furthermore we are part of a professional graduate body with a shared philosophy and purpose; and commit to living and working by an agreed code of ethics.

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5) What training did you have?

As interfaith ministers we spent 2 years learning and engaging with the major world faiths from which we gained a deep and thorough understanding of many spiritual practices and paths.  

The course was both academic and experiential in content allowing us to develop into empathetic and knowledgeable ministers.  A large proportion of the course was spent creating and conducting ceremonies which are relevant to all aspects of daily life.  

Through inner enquiry we strengthened our understanding and practice of meditation and spiritual connection and now have the skills necessary to spiritually coach and counsel clients, helping them to find the spiritual path that is right for them; leading people to a full knowledge and acceptance of themselves.

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6) What exactly do you specifically provide?

There is a natural rhythm to life with all its diversity and ups and downs. At Rhythm of life we strive to provide a wide range of ceremonies, support and services; catering for all stages of your life and various needs.

• Marriage
• Renewal of wedding vows
• Funerals and Memorials
• Personal Rites of Passage
• House Blessings
• Baby Naming and Blessing
• Adoption
• Separation
• Handfast
• Honouring Pets
• Life Navigation, Spiritual Coaching and Spiritual Connection
• Wedding Journey and Inspiration
• Short Retreats
• Workshops and Inspirational Talks
• Reiki Healing.

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7) What are the benefits of an interfaith ceremony?

An interfaith ceremony can include anything you what at any venue of your choice, everything is possible!  Nothing is prescribed or essential.  Elements included are those that are right for you, reflecting your beliefs and those of the people around you that are important to you.

So, for example we can create a ceremony which includes elements of two different religious traditions to reflect a couple's different faith backgrounds.

Equally we can create a ceremony with no reference to a particular faith.

Central to any interfaith ceremony is choice, respect and flexibility.

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8) What else can you tell me about the one on one support you offer?

• We give people a safe non judgemental space to explore their lives more deeply.
• All sessions are totally confidential.
• Sessions, lasting 50 minutes, can be carried out over the telephone or face to face (depending on location).
• An initial consultation is free to establish whether/ what support would be most appropriate and for you to establish how you feel about working with us.
• Should you decide to proceed we can then go on to discuss; the number of sessions, over what period of time and their frequency. This will vary from person to person.
• We were part of the extensive experiential training at the Interfaith Seminary and are bound by their Code of Ethics, we also adhere to the BACP Code of Ethics.
• Estelle is a qualified practicing life coach, experienced group facilitator and interviewer and is trained in psychodynamic counselling skills.
• Furthermore we have all studied the work of contemporary spiritual psychologists such as Byron Katie, Marianne Williamson and Debbie Ford.

9) What geographical area do you cover?

We are based in the South East of England but are willing to travel to anywhere in the United Kingdom (UK) or abroad. Communication is never an issue given the opportunities via telephone, email and post.

However, if for any reason we cannot work with you because of distance we can put you in touch with other interfaith ministers.

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10) How much do you charge?

We offer a range of ceremonies and services and the costs vary accordingly.

Costs will reflect what is involved, which will include; meeting for a consultation, researching content, designing the service, rehearsal where appropriate and facilitating and orchestrating the ceremony itself.

Costs start from £250 for a ceremony depending on its content and complexity. One-to-one support services will also vary in cost depending on the number of sessions you have, but they begin in the region of £40 per session.

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11) What if I just want some consultancy because I want to write a ceremony myself?

Yes we can do that, feel free to contact us and we can guide you from there.  We will be able to give you an hourly rate based on your requirements.

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12) I’m interested in what you have to offer …How do I begin? What do I do next?

We suggest that the first step is to begin with a conversation with us about what you want.  We can discuss how we can help and what we can offer you. Don't hesitate to get in touch via phone or email.

Your initial conversation with us will cost you nothing.

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You can contact us by Email or Tel 07923 511 949